If the Message Is Unclear, the Impact Is Unpredictable.
In business, confusing messages lead to disengagement.
In families and organizations, unclear messages shape identity, culture, and trust.
Do I matter?
Am I valued?
Do you believe in me?
When the answers aren’t clear, they don’t disappear...
people fill in the gaps themselves.
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Assumptions don’t shape identity. Words do.
The Legacy Letter Challenge was founded by
Blake Brewer
Confusing Messages Don’t Get Ignored, They Get Interpreted
Most parents and leaders care deeply. The problem isn’t intention.
The problem is clarity.
When love, pride, and belief are assumed instead of spoken:
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Children question who they are
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Employees disengage quietly
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Clients feel like transactions, not relationships
People don’t experience your intentions. They experience your words.
And when words are unclear, the cost is far greater than missed opportunities...it’s missed impact.
A Legacy Letter makes love clear, lasting, and receivable.
And if anyone understands why that matters, it’s me.
When I was 19, my parents took our family on an unforgettable trip to Hawaii. On the first day, my dad and I went snorkeling together at Hanauma Bay.
We were having an incredible time when we were suddenly pulled into a rough area known as the Witch’s Brew.
My father started yelling for help and before I knew it, he was under water. I tried to save him, but I wasn't able to. My father drowned.
It went from being one of the best days of my life to the worst.
A few hours later, we were back in the condo and I was trying to make sense of what just happened. At that moment my mother came into the room and handed me a "gift" from my dad.
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I didn't know it at the time, but my father had just finished writing a letter to me and my siblings.
The words in this letter were exactly what I needed at that time in my life and 19 years later his words and his voice are still leading me and guiding me.
Legacy Letter exists to preserve a loved one’s voice for the moments that matter most.
“One of my favorite
Dad’s Got This Stories”
Craig Melvin
Why Written Words Matter
Spoken words fade. Written words remain.
A Legacy Letter becomes:
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A steady voice during doubt and failure
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A reminder of who someone is when they forget
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A message that lasts long after the moment passes
People may forget the transaction, but they never forget the experience.
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And experiences are shaped by words.​
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“My daughter told me she keeps the letter in her nightstand. She reads it when she’s feeling unsure about herself. I had no idea how much it would mean.”
—Legacy Letter Writer
We've worked with:
Good Leaders Care. Great Leaders Make It Clear.
If you’re thinking about this, you’re already a good parent.
Already a thoughtful leader.
Legacy Letter doesn’t exist to fix failure.
It exists to protect what matters most.
People don’t need perfect parents or flawless leaders.
They need clear voices they can return to when life gets loud.
Aaron Walker
View From the Top
Good intentions are useless. When Blake introduced me to the Legacy Letter it allowed me - through his well thought out framework - to share my thoughts in a very succinct manner that made sense.
Now my girls see how much they mean to me and they no longer have to guess.
Thank you Blake.
James Reid
Founder & CEO | International Performance, Mental Game, & Life Strategist
This was the most powerful experience I've gone through as a Dad.
Keep going, Blake!
The world needs more Legacy Letters in it!
Mel Abraham
Business Breakthrough Academy
I went through Blake's process and what an amazing experience it was. I found myself closer to my son, my feelings for him, and the fact that now I have this special letter that he can carry with him for the rest of his life. Not only is this such a good thing for a dad to do, I think it is a must!
For Families, Teams, and Organizations
Legacy Letter engagements are customized and may include:
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Live speaking or in-person workshops
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Interactive virtual workshops\
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On-demand programs for ongoing impact
Our team partners with you to ensure successful implementation — not just inspiration.
This isn’t a one-time event.
It’s an investment in clarity, culture, and legacy.
Anthony Trucks
NFL, Ninja Warrior,
Motivational Speaker
"I had Blake on my show and I instantly knew I needed to write my children a Legacy Letter.
It was an amazing experience as we went through it together.
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Every dad needs to do this."
Ken Canfield
President & Founder
National Center for Fathering
Blake has gathered some of the tried tested insights from letter writing that I have used over the past 32 years, working with men in prison to those at the highest political and corporate levels...
But what makes Blake unique is that he has honed and focused those insights into a course that helps dads as they leave a legacy.
Tim Delaney
AZ Cardinals Vice President,
Digital Content and Creative
I am very grateful for Blake and the Legacy Letter Challenge. Blake helped me craft a letter that expressed to my girls how I feel about them along with some good life advice.
I loved be able to give the letters to my girls on each of their birthdays.
Cynthia Kneidinger
Retired Counselor and Therapist
"That was so well done.
As a parent and former therapist I can say this has tremendous value and can work towards healing and transformation in relationships.
Thank you for this presentation and project."
Joy Holden
Writer and Former Teacher
"I attended the Legacy Letters City Launch for Baton Rouge, Louisiana. I found the presentation engaging and helpful.
As a former English teacher, I appreciated the specific steps to the outline, and Blake’s explanations and examples for each section. The event was well attended, and I’m excited to see how Legacy Letters impacts our city in a positive way."
Lorna Ryan
Head of Customer Success
Swish Australia
"More than anything, I'm still feeling very emotional. I'm going to write a letter to my dad, plus the other members of my family, and I'll see if I can get my husband to do one of these sessions. I see a beautiful opportunity to share a really, really powerful message.
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Blake has given me such a gift today. And I just wanted to say thank you. I've found the Legacy Letter workshop a beautiful couple of hours. Thank you.
Don’t Let the Most Important Words Go Unsaid.
You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be willing.
We’ll help you write a letter that matters—for the people who matter most.